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Re: Player Issues zerarose     12/16/2004 21:37

Greetings to all,

I was the hosting TD during the conflict that occurred between Rich and the hearts player which I will refer to has "53". Player "53" has been causing disruptions for has long has I have been a member of Eliters Hearts ,which would be two and half years. The player "53" in my opinion has very little or no compassion for his fellow players, he looks for ways to intimidate and created grief , he is a man without honor.

We all have in our life's to different degrees a code of conduct, we all feel anger, sorrow , joy, and most of us bring on line our proper mannerisms, we all put in pratice our social skills. We have had moments that we have said things our of anger and frustration. Now we also know that we forgive those ,that have those rare outbursts, thinking OK he or she has had a bad day! so we will just ignore it and let it go. Now the difference between "53" and the rest of us is he thrives on finding out your weakness, and he takes great pleasure in distorting and twisting your weakness then using it against you in hopes to control you, and if your from a different culture @ religion , in other words , if your not white and catholic watch out!! He "53" will use every vulgar raciest comment known to man. Now compounded that with being a women, and having "53" always over and over sending private messages too you, using very nasty and vulgar language directed at you...put him on ignore, yep done it, but hey in two days he has new id, and again the im's begin , and yep put him on ignore again, the cycle begins over and over......, and if he can't hammer away at you on the IM's, he then will use the lobby screen, hell he will use both!!

The player "53" has been reported to Eliters Organization @ Yahoo plenty of times over the course of the last three years, so its not a case of the TD's not reporting this behavior. What it does come down to is, what does a person do? How do we approach the situation? Is there a solution to the problem? Apparently one has not been found in the last three years....so has a TD my hands are tied , "53" is entitled to play any tourney, yes I can DQ him if he uses bad language toward fellow players or if its directed at myself, but nothing stops him from entering the next Tourney.

The only solution that is available to us is SILENCE, to ignore him, too not feed him, if we are to reply to him, he is getting what he is seeking , he receives satisfaction from our responds too him. "Also folks its best too keep personal issues such has our family's has private or to be shared with those only who we trust. Because you just never know who will use it too hurt you. I only wish there was a better solution."

For what it worth Rich, I am on your side, your a senior player, and best of all your regular hearts supporter. I hope you will take some time to rethink your decision.


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